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2021.09.20 04:04 throwawayhusband231 Wife (23F) can't decide if she wants to be married to me (24M) anymore. Together 7 years, married 4 high school sweethearts.
Warning: long and kinda confusing but I have so many thoughts in my head that I had to get down. Please feel free to ask any questions and thanks in advance for any and all help!
So about a year ago, my wife came to me saying she doesn't know if she can do this anymore in reference to our marriage....I asked her to just give it some time thinking it was a phase and I can change to be the man she needs in this stage she is in. She loves me and I know she does but she thinks I'm controlling her for some reason when I have never told her she can't do something even when I probably should. The problems really started when she started going to a male friends house to smoke the devils lettuce and would end up passing out on the couch and this would happen 3-4 times a week. Now before the cheating accusations come in, I know she hasn't had sex with anyone else but she has done other things that I consider cheating but we will talk about that later.
Now on to my issues, I should have listened and done more when she first came to me with the feeling of wanting to be alone but I pushed it out of my mind at the time, went on deployment in January, and told her we would make a decision on what to do after I got back, got back in April and things seemed fairly normal for a few months until around the 4th of July I went through her phone (I know a bad thing to do and I shouldn't have trust issues) and saw where she was being too friendly for comfort with a male friend of hers, I confronted her and she said she was done and didn't want to be married anymore and this time I took it for real. I started reading books and got both of us into counseling, but she still can't decide on whether or not to stay married. She knows I'm a good man and a good husband and someday a good father but she can't fight the feeling of needing something for herself and be able to show herself that she can survive on her own....we have been together since high school, together 7 years and married 4.
As for the big problems we are facing right now, she had a thing with her boss where they would flirt and they ended up kissing and almost had sex but she couldn't follow through with it (I'm her first and only and she is my 3rd.) I have forgiven her and just want to move on from it (she got fired from that job because someone that actually slept with her boss took her place) but she can't seem to forgive herself. On my end, I got drunk and made a huge mistake, and had sex with her while she was sleeping, we usually get handsy in our sleep but this time she didn't wake up...I know it was 100% wrong and that is not the man I am and she has forgiven me and trusts me but we haven't had sex since I've told her about it mainly because she can't stop thinking about it. I told her that she can take her time with the sex but she just has to WANT to be with me and we can work everything out but she goes back to her wanting something for herself and not knowing what she wants from life whether it be a loving husband and kids or if she wants to focus on getting a career and being by herself....I say why not have a husband, kids, and work on your career and she just tells me that she wants to find herself and prove to herself that she can provide for herself.
TLDR: Wife was wanting to leave and "find herself and prove she can provide for herself" and ended up cheating, I made a drunk mistake and had sex with her while she was sleeping which makes us both feel like I raped her, she lost her job and just wants to provide for herself. Our problems are solvable but she just has to want to do it and I want nothing more than to have her as my wife. How do I show her she can be independent while still being married? Or should we just move on?
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